When people think about volunteering for Yorkshire Air Ambulance, they often talk about giving back, supporting a lifesaving cause, or meeting new people in their community. What they don’t usually expect is to find love.
But that’s exactly what happened to Joan and Richard.
The pair met while volunteering on a Yorkshire Air Ambulance stall, surrounded by merchandise, donation tins and the familiar buzz of a community event. It wasn’t a dramatic, fireworks-at-first-sight kind of meeting. Instead, it was something gentler, and perhaps even more meaningful: two people, both having experienced loss, finding comfort, laughter and companionship in the most unexpected of places.
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A quiet stall, a new volunteer and a twinkle in the eye
Their story began at a Dinofest in Morley — an event that promised crowds but turned out to be surprisingly quiet. Joan was volunteering alongside another team member when she was told a new volunteer would be joining them.
That volunteer was Richard.
A little later, Joan spotted him again while he was volunteering outside a supermarket. According to fellow volunteers, Richard watched Joan walk all the way back to her car, a small moment that hinted this might be more than just a shared shift on a stall.
By the end of the day, as they were packing away, Joan asked a simple question: “What do you do when you finish volunteering?”
Richard’s answer was equally simple, go home and watch television.
There was a pause. Then another question. And finally, an invitation.
It wasn’t for a drink, Joan suggested a meal instead, which led them to a local fish and chip restaurant. They talked for hours. And when the evening came to an end, Joan invited Richard back for a cup of tea. Strictly platonic, of course.
They both left that night knowing something important had begun.
From first dates to free parking and Ferris wheels
Their first official date took them to Scarborough. Richard, proudly embracing his Yorkshire roots, found free parking, although that decision came with a very steep hill and a moment where both of them had to stop halfway up to catch their breath.
Despite that near-disaster, the day was filled with laughter. They rode the Big Wheel at the seafront, wandered the town, and enjoyed simply being together.
What started as companionship slowly deepened into something stronger.
Both Joan and Richard had lost their partners a few years earlier. For Joan, the loneliness following her husband’s death during the height of the COVID pandemic had been overwhelming. Volunteering gave her a reason to get back out into the world, and, unexpectedly, it introduced her to someone who truly understood what she’d been through.
Life, love and learning to lean on each other
As their relationship grew, life presented new challenges. Richard began experiencing problems with his mobility, eventually needing major spinal surgery, followed later by a knee operation. During his recovery, he moved in with Joan, initially “just for a few weeks”, but those weeks became months, and before long, living together simply made sense.
They shared not only a home, but everyday life: hospital appointments, cups of tea, laughter, and the quiet reassurance of not being alone anymore.
Eventually, the question of marriage came up, not with grand gestures or dramatic proposals, but in a way that felt perfectly right for them. They decided together.
Their wedding, held at Waterton Park Hotel, was intimate and personal. Joan wore a beautiful burgundy dress she searched months to find. Richard, meanwhile, found his suit in a single trip, proving, as he joked, that weddings really are for the ladies.
Volunteering together – and loving every minute
Today, volunteering remains a huge part of Joan and Richard’s life. From packing the car with merchandise to setting up their stall just the way Joan likes it (neatly organised, of course), they enjoy every aspect of it.
They love talking to people, hearing stories, and raising vital funds, with games like “Pick a Stick” drawing in children and parents alike. And at the end of a long day, they usually reward themselves with a meal out together, reflecting on another successful event.
For them, Yorkshire Air Ambulance is more than a charity. It’s a cause people can see, hear and feel, often quite literally, as the helicopters fly overhead. Almost everyone they meet has a story: a friend, a family member, or even themselves having needed the service.
“You never know who you’ll meet”
When asked what they would say to someone considering volunteering, both Joan and Richard are clear.
Volunteering saves lives. It brings people together. And sometimes, it changes your life in ways you could never expect.
As Joan puts it: “You never know who you’ll meet. You never know if it will change your life.”
For Joan and Richard, it certainly did.
Thank you Joan and Richard for sharing their beatiful story.
Could volunteering change your life?
Joan and Richard’s story is a reminder that volunteering with Yorkshire Air Ambulance is about so much more than raising funds, it’s about connection, community and making a real difference.
Whether you’re looking to give something back, meet new people, or simply be part of an incredible lifesaving cause, volunteering could be the start of something special.
Find out more about volunteering opportunities with Yorkshire Air Ambulance and how you can get involved by visiting yorkshireairambulance.org.uk/volunteer. You never know who you’ll meet – or how it might change your life.


